How To Overcome The Challenge Of Forgiveness

What if there was a way to get over the challenge of forgiveness without having to forgive?

Sounds strange right?

Well stay with me because I’m going to share with you something that will be a bit different from all those Instagram and blog posts that tell you that you need to forgive.

For most people forgiveness is forced, inauthentic or not even possible to imagine because we still have feelings of anger, resentment and hurt inside us. This is why forgiveness is one of the greatest challenges to overcome.

In this clip I’m going to share with you a way around this which will liberate you from the NEED to forgive someone.

If you feel you would like some help to connect deeper to your heart and feel more love in your life, then this Golden Heart Meditation is for you. After you do this meditation you will not feel the need to force forgiveness. This is very liberating as you become free from the bondage of the hurt and suffering that held you back from being able to forgive. This is a simple 5 minute meditation that you can download into your phone and do anywhere and anytime. Just click the button below to start meditating.



“Each day, I CAN’T wait for my next meditation. THANK YOU for taking the mystery out of meditation.”
“Your meditation program is an answer to years of prayers. Thank you!”
“I want to pass on my profound gratitude. While positive things have been happening, today’s meditation was just amazing. I am enormously grateful.”

I Have An Apology To Make…


I have to apologize to you. You see I did something over the last few weeks that I really shouldn’t have done.  It wasn’t fair on you, me or the Universe.  I dimmed my light so that I wouldn’t make some people feel uncomfortable. Sound familiar? Do you shrink or align to other people’s darker state to try to make them feel more comfortable?

Happy people really annoy unhappy people. I didn’t want to make some people feel annoyed so I tried to fit in with them by dimming. Hmmm, interestingly it didn’t make them any happier but not only that, it certainly didn’t make me feel too good either.

That’s when I decided, dimming my light doesn’t serve anyone. Not me, you, them (the annoyed people), or the Universe.

It was a big lesson. There was only one option, burn it bright baby! Shine your light as bright as can be…this is the time for you to let your radiance radiate! Sure, its not going to please everyone, because some people love to play in the dark…I did for years. The darkness has its own lure, but I’ve played in the dark and I’ve played in the light. One sure feels a whole lot better than the other- give me LIGHT any day!

So that all sounds sweet and woo-woo but what does it actually mean and how do we switch from one to the other? Well, here are some simple tips to flick on your inner beacon of light:

– Firstly recognize whether you are playing in the dark or light. This is an important step of self awareness. It’s easy to simply be in a sleep state of numbness not even aware of our preference for dark or light.

– Then make a conscious decision, and state it everyday- IT’S TIME TO SHINE MY LIGHT. Hold this intention and make a commitment each day to yourself and the Universe that you intend to turn up the switch on your inner beacon.

– Meditate each morning and afternoon. When you quieten your mind in meditation you quieten the static of all the self doubt, the unworthiness, the fear, the guilt, the shame and open the connection to your unconditional heart center of love. In your heart center there is a fiery energy of love that is always burning.

– Open up your body with yoga. Our body becomes very immobilized with today’s lifestyle. We get stagnated energy blocks in our body by sitting in a chair all day on computers and transport. Yoga unblocks these points and allows the vital energy to flow through you like a river that has been cleared of rubbish.

– Regularly stop and pause through the day and marvel at the beauty of nature all around you. It doesn’t matter where you are, even in crowded cities, you will still be able to find a blade of grass peeking out of the sidewalk, or observe a fluffy white cloud floating high up above.

– Hug…..yep…HUG! Hug trees, animals, people….something magical happens when you hug, well it’s not even magical, its actually scientific- you produce more oxytocin, the love drug.

There you have it, 6 simple steps to fire up that inner light of yours for all the world to see. Yeah sure, some people won’t like it, but you get to choose, dark or light. What’s it going to be?

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